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About Jesús Enrique Rosas

The Body Language Guy.

My GUARANTEED system to CRUSH your fear of public speaking:

Few fears can be more paralyzing than the mere thought of standing in front a group of people and giving a public speech. I know such a feat can be daunting but I'm here to give you my step-by-step system that has a ONE HUNDRED PERCENT effectiveness in getting rid of that fear. I have applied this system with more than 1000 people with different degrees of dread about speaking in public and in every single one of them, it has worked. The caveat? my system requires actual work, and you will feel levels of cringe about yourself that will rival ... [keep reading...]

My GUARANTEED system to CRUSH your fear of public speaking:2025-01-01T13:43:59+01:00

The Secret To Talking With An Uber-Defensive Teenager

I got this question today: "Jesus, I need to talk to my teen about keeping her word and her responsibilities. I want to talk to her in a way that brings change instead of her blowing me off as a bossy mom. We have a good relationship, but she gets very defensive when I try to correct her. What should I do?" (You can send me your own questions to jrosas@knesix.com) I get the question of 'persuading teens' every now and then, even if most people still don't like the term 'persuasion'. It's important to remember that there is a critical ... [keep reading...]

The Secret To Talking With An Uber-Defensive Teenager2025-01-01T13:44:00+01:00

This is why I don’t mention my qualifications anymore:

People's expectations can negate the best intentions, and that reminds me how a Johnny Depp anecdote is outlandishly related to my rather private professional background - and a lesson in persuasion: While visiting Disneyland after the first Pirates Of The Caribbean movie hit the theaters, Johnny Depp was eager to pull a prank in the attraction of the same name. The idea was to dress up as Jack Sparrow, stay among the other animatronics, wait until people came over in the boats and then jump and scream. Simple! When the moment arrived, Depp couldn't contain his excitement. He remained frozen while ... [keep reading...]

This is why I don’t mention my qualifications anymore:2025-01-01T13:44:00+01:00

How to read body language (when there’s NO body language?)

I got this interesting question yesterday (remember that you can ask me anything just writing to jrosas@knesix.com!): “What happens when the person being analyzed shows no emotions, no gestures, no micro expressions or anything? when she remains impassive without showing absolutely anything on her face? what does that mean?” It has happened to me a couple times. I call this kind of people ‘blanks’. They’re pretty much emotionless. Yes, they can smile, laugh, grimace and show frustration but their emotional reactions are so subtle that it’s hard to see any relevant markers to determine what’s going on under the hood. Luckily, ... [keep reading...]

How to read body language (when there’s NO body language?)2025-01-01T13:44:01+01:00

Hugh Laurie explains what to do if a Lion Chases You:

Hugh Laurie had to work with a literal lion once, and his first question was obvious: what to do if it attacks me? the answer is both funny and insightful: So, Laurie was filming this documentary that featured these fluffy-maned killing machines, and at some point he had to literally be filmed pretty close to one of them. The little detail that rang his internal alarms is that the filming crew was conveniently wrapped inside an iron cage, while the Dr. House star was going to be out in the open, next to the animal. He asked the specialist on set, ... [keep reading...]

Hugh Laurie explains what to do if a Lion Chases You:2025-01-01T13:44:03+01:00

Who knew being watched by the Soviet police could be fun?

Most people would get uneasy about being spied, but this anecdote about an US diplomat proves you can live in a Peter Sellers movie every now and then: William Harriman was a US diplomat well known for his phenomenal hard work and wits. While being ambassador in Moscow in 1945, he was followed everywhere by the Soviet secret police. He was aware of this, and found their persistence amusing. One weekend, he was invited to visit a British colleague at a country retreat. The area was only accessible only by means of all-terrain vehicles, so thinking about the guys constantly following ... [keep reading...]

Who knew being watched by the Soviet police could be fun?2025-01-01T13:44:04+01:00

The #1 secret to become MAGNETIC is easier than you think:

You don't need to be born 'magnetic' to mesmerize and attract people; you just have to apply the simple trick I learned from my periodontist, that is easier than you think (and free!) It was fall 1992. I remember that I went to my periodontist for a regular check. I always remember her as rather charismatic lady, cracking jokes and making the procedure of checking my gums from bearable to almost entertaining. At some point I mentioned that I was going to compete at a local Nintendo tournament the upcoming weekend, and if all went well, I would be classified for ... [keep reading...]

The #1 secret to become MAGNETIC is easier than you think:2025-01-01T13:44:04+01:00

How To Boost Your Good Luck 10x:

"Good Luck" is something you can control, like this F1 driver that avoided a fatal crash just by paying attention to the right signs: Beneath the Monaco sun, the roar of engines echoed. Argentine Formula One driver Juan Manuel Fangio, a five-time World Drivers' Champion, led the race. Swift and agile, his car danced upon the asphalt. But as he sped, a hushed alarm bell rang in his mind. Ahead, a treacherous curve unfurled. As Fangio approached, a peculiar sight met his eyes: The blur of spectator faces, usually indifferent, were turned away, their attention snatched by an unseen drama beyond ... [keep reading...]

How To Boost Your Good Luck 10x:2025-01-01T13:44:05+01:00

The reason why Disraeli couldn’t write a joke about Queen Victoria:

I've met a lot of people with impressive skills, but the most remarkable ones were those who were well aware of their limitations. That was the case with Disraeli and this anecdote about writing jokes: Legend says that William Gladstone and Benjamin Disraeli, both having played sort of a ping-pong game for years being prime ministers of the UK, were chatting late at night in Disraeli's studio. Gladstone mentioned his colleague's joke writing skills, and the other scoffed with a humble gesture. "I'm sure you could write a joke about any subject", said the first. "Yes, it is quite possible", was ... [keep reading...]

The reason why Disraeli couldn’t write a joke about Queen Victoria:2025-01-01T13:44:06+01:00

Whenever I feel overwhelmed, I do exactly as Michael Fassbender:

Sometimes life can throw so many things at us, at the same time, that it's easy to become overwhelmed by then. But when that happens, I think of this Michael Fassbender anecdote and it just works: The moment Michael Fassbender had this script in his hands, he became instantly mesmerized. The complexity of the character was already legendary, the stages of development were perfect for painting strong emotions and the project looked amazing. There was only one problem: Fassbender is a perfectionist. And the script in question was for the biopic "Steve Jobs", another hopeless perfectionist. Imagine such combination. Danny Boyle, ... [keep reading...]

Whenever I feel overwhelmed, I do exactly as Michael Fassbender:2025-01-01T13:44:06+01:00
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